Episode 25: Your Marriage is Your Greatest Business Asset
Running a business while managing home, family, and marriage can feel like a never-ending cycle of stress and overwhelm. You’re carrying the weight of it all, and it feels like there’s no partnership at home.
But here’s the truth: your marriage can be your greatest business asset. Today, I’ll share real stories, uncover why so much of your energy gets drained before you even sit down to work, and reveal the missing piece that transforms resentment into connection. You’ll learn how to redirect your mental energy, build inner safety, and create a partnership that allows both your marriage and your business to thrive.
Episode 24: Aligning With Everyday Marriage
What if your marriage is less about the highlight reel and more about the micro-moments you repeat every day? Today, we will reframe partnership through the lens of training for a marathon: the finish line matters, but it’s the hundreds of small, intentional choices that get you there. From color-coding calendars to scheduling joy on purpose, you’ll learn how to align your hours with the future you want—without waiting for a trip, an anniversary, or “someday.”
Listen in for a gentle call-out, a loving permission slip to change what isn’t working, and a practical way to measure genuine, enjoyable time together.
Episode 23: Loving the Woman You Were, Are, and Will Be
In this heartfelt and transformative blog, we explore what it means to truly know, love, and align with every version of yourself — past, present, and future. From tender reflections on hard seasons to empowering daily rituals, you’ll discover how understanding your own desires and direction creates clarity, energy, and a sense of grounded purpose. And in the end, you’ll see how this alignment ripples outward, transforming not just your daily life but also your closest relationships and your marriage.
Episode 22: The Rule That Can Change Your Marriage
Today, we unpack one of the most common but overlooked parts of marriage and relationships: how we respond when we’re triggered. Whether it’s fight, flight, freeze, or fawn, our knee-jerk reactions often lead to shame, guilt, or disconnection. Through real-life stories (yes, including my kids and my husband!) and practical coaching insight, I’ll walk you through a simple but transformative practice: pausing, self-reflecting, and choosing to show up as your highest, most loving self. You’ll learn how to move from reaction to intention, break old patterns, and create more connection in your marriage. This is a post you’ll want to come back to again and again.
Episode 21: When You Need Something to Change in Your Marriage
Do you ever feel like your marriage is stuck on repeat?
You keep having the same fight, hitting the same roadblocks, and feeling the same frustrations — no matter how much you want things to change. Today, we uncover the real reason that happens and what it takes to finally break free.
Episode 20: What Men Want
This post is a raw, unfiltered reflection on what men truly want—and how understanding their core desires can shift the dynamic in your relationship and home.
In this post:
The primal roles men are wired to fulfill
Why men need to feel needed (and what happens when they don’t)
How women unknowingly carry too much masculine energy
The difference between the hero’s journey and the heroine’s journey
How to begin healing your feminine energy
What balance really looks like in a modern partnership
This is for every woman who’s ever wondered, “Why do I feel like I’m doing everything?” Let’s zoom out and look at the bigger picture—together.
Episode 19: Why Your Boundaries Aren't Working (And What Will)
Can you believe I’ve gone this long without doing a whole episode on boundaries? Today we’re diving all the way in — not just what boundaries are, but how so many of us are using them in ways that actually push love away instead of letting it grow.
Episode 18- The Emotional Baggage We Bring Into Marriage
Today, we dive into the emotional baggage we all carry — childhood wounds, unhealed trauma, unresolved feelings — and how they impact our relationships, especially our marriage. I open up about a moment this past weekend where I felt overwhelmed and triggered, and how I chose to pause, go inward, and process what I was feeling in my body rather than react.
We’ll explore how emotional reactivity stems from unhealed wounds, why grounding ourselves is essential before vulnerability, and how to create an “emotional pause ritual” that brings us back to ourselves.
Will it always feel like this? Or is there a way to reignite that passion and purpose without needing him to change?
Episode 17- Soulmates or Roommates?
Maybe your marriage feels like it's stuck on the surface. Like you're just business partners—doing your roles, getting through the week—but missing that deep, soulful connection you truly crave. You might even wish your husband would show up differently… help more, say more, do more. But no matter what changes, the connection still feels flat.
Will it always feel like this? Or is there a way to reignite that passion and purpose without needing him to change?
Episode 16- Acceptance: The Secret to a Thriving Marriage
Maybe it’s true he’s not supporting you the way you want. Maybe it’s true your marriage isn’t what you pictured. But every time you try to change reality, you create your own suffering. In this blog, I unpack why acceptance is not giving up, but the gateway to peace, clarity, and genuine love in your marriage. You’ll learn how leaning into what is can transform the way you show up as a wife—without needing your partner to change first.
Episode 15: When You Don't Feel Loved Back
Today, I unpack why not feeling loved back can feel like agony in your marriage—and how to shift into a place of abundance without needing your husband to change. Learn why letting him love you his way can transform your connection, how to stop waiting for love, and how to become deeply grounded and secure in your marriage again.
Episode 14- From Control to Connection
Feeling overwhelmed, overfunctioning, or like you’re constantly in “fix-it” mode in your marriage and everywhere else for that matter? In this episode, we explore 3 powerful ways to shift from control to connection—realigning with your feminine energy, softening your nervous system, and learning to create without pressure to produce. This is your invitation to slow down, tune in, and return to who you really are. Doing so will create WILD RADICAL connection in your marriage. (without needing your husband to change)
Episode 13- Emotional Whiplash in Your Marriage
Do you bounce between feeling totally in love and totally over it? One moment you're connected and laughing, the next you're wondering if your marriage will make it?
That exhausting back-and-forth is what I call emotional whiplash — and it's more common than you think.
Today, I unpack why so many of us get stuck in the extremes of marriage, how black-and-white thinking keeps us suffering, and what it really takes to break free. We’ll talk about nervous system regulation, reclaiming your emotional power, and how to stop reacting and start consciously creating the relationship you truly want.
Episode 12- Useful Fighting
This week, we dive into the truth about fighting in marriage — not all conflict is bad, but how we fight matters. I share a real, raw story of a couple on the brink and breaks down what made their fights destructive vs. what ultimately helped them reconnect. Learn why avoiding fights can be more dangerous than having them, how to tell when you're in a "high emotion, low logic" state, and what it means to fight fair with love, regulation, and self-awareness.
Episode 11- Go Dark to Grow Light
Today, we explore one of the most powerful — and uncomfortable — truths in marriage:
What we avoid doesn’t go away. It grows.
Whether it’s mismatched sex drives, money conflicts, broken trust, or parenting tension, there’s often a part of your marriage you’ve quietly decided to tiptoe around. It seems safer. Less disruptive. But over time, that “unspoken space” starts to take up more emotional real estate — leaving you tired, resentful, and disconnected.
Episode 10- The Poison of Comparison
This week, we’re getting brutally honest about something that quietly erodes connection, intimacy, and self-worth: comparison.
Whether you’re sizing up your husband, your marriage, or your entire life next to someone else’s, comparison never leads where you think it will. It doesn’t make you happier, more grateful, or more connected. It makes you doubt yourself, push harder, or pull away.
Episode 9- Letting Go of Control
In this powerful episode, we dive deep into a truth many high-achieving, take-charge women face in their marriages: control feels safe—until it doesn’t. If you've ever found yourself doing it all, feeling overwhelmed, and silently resenting your partner for not “stepping up,” this one’s for you.
Through a heartfelt client story and raw personal reflection, we explore how control becomes a coping mechanism rooted in fear, not freedom—and how it's often the very thing blocking the intimacy, connection, and partnership we crave.
Episode 8- Questioning Marriage
In this episode, we’re diving deep into the importance of asking the tough questions in your marriage. It’s not about doubting your relationship but about growing through it. Questioning your marriage can unlock new depths of connection and self-discovery.
Episode 7- From Codependency to Co-Regulation
In this powerful episode, we’re unpacking the emotional dance between codependency and co-regulation—and how understanding the difference can completely transform your marriage, parenting, and personal peace.
Whether you're constantly absorbing the moods of your spouse, reacting to your child’s meltdowns, or losing yourself trying to manage everyone else's emotions… this episode will help you reclaim your energy and emotional independence.
You’ll learn how to hold space for the people you love—without losing yourself in the process.
Episode 6- Marriage Ecosystem
Do you ever feel like your marriage is two people trying to share a canoe with no paddles in opposite directions? Yeah, same. Today I'm sharing one shift in perspective that completely changed the way I show up in my marriage. And honestly, it's not what you think. It's simple, it's powerful, and no, it doesn't involve better communication skills or planning more date nights.
Although plus those two, if you've ever wondered, is it supposed to feel this hard, or why does it seem like we're working against each other instead of together? This episode is for you. Get ready for a fresh take that might change everything.